What to expect at a group bate
Your first time
So you are a 21+ year-old dude, new to social masturbation and jack-off clubs, and are nervous about your first time. No worries! You’re not the first and you won’t be the last! Our First Time portal with an action list and resources acts as a guide to help you.
How-to: Attend a club event
“Help! I want to attend an Austin Jacks, but I don’t know what to do!”
Here’s a to-do list:
Check out our First Timer portal. [📍 You are here!]
Sign up for an online orientation (below). Orientation is required before attending an event. We also have in-person orientations, which are held at the event, but prefer online orientations for the best experience.
RSVP to an event. Each event’s details page (EDP) will have the location information (at the top for mobile, to the left for desktop), the event’s schedule, and other info you’ll need for your first event. When you RSVP (click/tap the giant button), it will walk you through payment options. Your payment goes towards the venue or costs of operating the club.
Check out the 10-step walkthrough (below).
Email us if your question is not available on our site. We try to equip attendees with all the knowledge here on our site but sometimes we may not have answered your particular inquiry. If you have questions that you can’t find the answer to, definitely reach out to us by email (below). Do not DM us on other websites as we may not see them until too late.
Attend orientation
Everyone who attends an event and becomes a member of Austin goes through orientation. We want to make sure you and the guys you meet have a great time.
In-person orientations
Status: ACTIVE (Always)
In-person orientations are our “expedited” orientations. They include a very brief introduction to Austin Jacks and a rundown of our Code of Conduct. Simply RSVP to an event for in-person orientation.
Online orientations
Status: PAUSED (Indefinitely)
Online orientations are provided by Zoom meetings. You’ll get to meet event organizers and sometimes regular attendees will share their experience. There’s more breathing room with our online orientations, which is why we prefer them for you.
What else happens at online orientation:
Learn about the club
Get a walkthrough of our Code of Conduct
Learn about what’s coming for the club
Ask us everything
Reduce your anxiety by a lot
If there are online slots available, they would show here. If not, then that means we don’t have any available at this time and your best bet is to attend an in-person orientation.
Does dick size matter?
Are straight guys allowed?
What should I expect?
Is oral or anal sex allowed?
Do I have to be naked?
Does dick size matter? Are straight guys allowed? What should I expect? Is oral or anal sex allowed? Do I have to be naked?
Frequently-Asked Questions
We get a ton of messages from guys who are nervous and excited about their first jack-off club experience. Check out these real-deal FAQs.
A 10-step walkthrough for a hotel event
After RSVPing to an event, we’ll send you access information like room number, parking info, etc. to the email you gave us. Make sure to check the schedule on the event’s detail page for when.
Arrive by 30 minutes after the start time. (You can send us a note saying you’ll be late. We won’t accept late comers otherwise.)
Find a spot to park (or have a rideshare drop you off). Pay attention to any signs.
Breathe. :) You’ll have fun and you’ll be accepted.
When you enter the hotel, walk past reception, and go to the elevator. No need to chat with reception. (Check the event details for any special instructions to access the room.)
Knock on the door.
A host will check you in. If you haven’t gone through orientation already, we’ll give you a brief one.
Come in and get comfortable.
Gain consent before touching others. "May I?" "Is it cool if I...?"
Enjoy yourself and tell your friends about it!
Tips
What to bring and other things
Good vibes and a supportive attitude.
Make sure you smell okay. Don't wear colognes or fragrances. Deodorant is ok.
Fresh breath is always a good idea.
Maskurbating (bating with a mask on) is perfectly fine.
Wearables like locks, cock rings, ball stretchers are totally fine. Please don’t bring larger items, frots toys (sleeves), or anal toys.
What not to bring
Do not bring cooties. Please don't come if you're not feeling well, have a cough, or sneeze. Bate at home and tell us about it.
Toys. See our Q&A about toys.
Things we provide that you’re welcome to bring
Lube (We carry Bator Balm and Alb0lene.)
Clean-up items. (Bring a towel if you prefer but we provide body wipes.)
Frequently asked questions
We get a ton of questions so we’ve captured them all! Check out our Frequently Asked Questions.
