1 Ask before you grasp

• Affirmative consent is getting a “yes, please!” or an enthusiastic head nod.

• Make sure you know how to say no. Everyone attendee has gone through orientation so don’t feel bad telling them “no thanks.”

• If you get a rejection, don’t take it personal, don’t make a noise, don’t make a face. Say “okay” and move on. The most important penis is yours so give that guy a lot of love.

• Turn discomfort into education. Every penis is wired different. Show your buddy how you like it.

2 Lips above the hips

• Absolutely no oral sex.

• Absolutely no oral teasing (placing mouth by the genitals).

3 Poles out of holes

• Absolutely no anal sex.

• Absolutely no anal teasing (fingers cannot enter the crack).

4 Privacy is part of the pleasure

• Do not describe anyone outside of the event. We do not want any “I know that guy!” situations.

• No photos or videos. Devices that capture not allowed in the play space.

• In our group chats, do not download or share member photos and videos without their consent.

You will meet guys of all different sexual orientations and identities. Some may be out as bators, some may not. Protect your brother’s right to privacy.

Repeated violation of these rules gets you disinvited
or your membership revoked without refund.

Other ways to create good vibes

• No alcohol or drugs, except 📼💥 and pheromones.
  Be mindful not to show up intoxicated at our events. A clear mind will respect our Code of Conduct.

• Take care of your hygiene.
  We respect all kinks but bad body odor or oral odor can be disruptive. Similarly, no heavy colognes or body sprays. Deodorant is fine.

• Don't spread the gunk.
  If you're not feeling well, even if it's allergies, do not come (definitely cum tho but at home).

• Have a great time.