What to expect at a group bate

Your first time

How-to: Attend a club event

Most guys who are new to social masturbation and jack-off clubs are nervous their first time. No worries! You’re not the first and you won’t be the last! We’ve provided a play-by-play walkthrough for your first time. If you’d like to attend an online orientation, sign up below.

A walkthrough for a hotel event

  • If the event is at a hotel, Austin Jacks will post the room number on the day of the event. Check the event details at least an hour before the event.

  • Arrive by 30 minutes after the start time. (You can send us a note saying you’ll be late. We won’t accept late comers otherwise.)

  • Find a spot to park (or have a rideshare drop you off).

  • Breathe. :) You’ll have fun and you’ll be accepted.

  • When you enter the hotel, walk past reception, and go to the elevator. No need to chat with reception. (Check the event details for any special instructions to access the room.)

  • Knock on the door.

  • A host will check you in. If you haven’t gone through orientation already, we’ll give you a brief one.

  • Come in and get comfortable.

  • Gain consent before touching others. "May I?" "Is it cool if I...?"

  • Enjoy yourself and tell your friends about it!

What to bring and other things

  • Good vibes and a supportive attitude.

  • Bring your lube of choice.

  • Bring a towel to wipe off if you want. There may be extra towels.

  • Make sure you smell okay. Don't wear colognes or fragrances. Deodorant is ok.

  • Fresh breath is always a good idea.

  • Maskurbating (bating with a mask on) is perfectly fine.

  • Penis toys like locks, cock rings, ball stretchers are totally fine. Please don’t bring larger items, frots toys (sleeves), or anal toys.

What not to bring

Do not bring cooties. Please don't come if you're not feeling well, have a cough, or sneeze. Bate at home and tell us about it.

Frequently asked questions

We get a ton of questions so we’ve captured them all! Check out our Frequently Asked Questions.

Attend orientation online

Everyone who attends an event and becomes a member of Austin goes through orientation. We want to make sure you and the guys you meet have a great time, so we’ve set up online orientations! These special meetings are available via Zoom.

What happens at orientation:

  • Learn about the club

  • Get a walkthrough of our Code of Conduct

  • Learn about what’s coming for the club

  • Ask us everything

  • Reduce your anxiety by a lot